When there comes the crisis period in family when the destiny presents vital lessons to each of her members, it is difficult to understand how to keep in harmony of the relation with each other. Do not forget that the best way out will be found of any situation. The main thing not to lower a hand.
How to restore the relations in family?
- How it was difficult, but abstract from search of fault of darling in the available family dissonance. Recognize that the share of your fault in it also is. Try to reject offense and to realize where you made a mistake.
- How do you usually resolve conflict situations with family members? Someone concedes to someone? But in the latter case all the same one of the parties remains unsatisfied in own requirements. It should be noted that the emotional relations in family in many respects depend on with what intonation, tone of a voice you address to each other. Respect as to younger, and to the senior, always it has to be shown, even at the time of a discrepancy of opinions, interests.
- The easiest to remember the worst moments: how you were touched because of whom you did not sleep all night long and so forth. Forget about it. Negative emotions are capable to destroy the person. They do harm not only to psychological health, but also physical. In this case the thicket should remind itself what good is done for you by darling. Remember those related moments when you realized that you are happy.
- Daily, not less than half an hour, having switched-off the computer, the TV, communicate with each other. Forget about such concept as claims. Turn them into requests better, without having forgotten to soften phrases by means of please, if you does not complicate, be kind.
- Difficult relations in family in a moment will leave if you go together to a travel, for example, a self-locking device. Extreme situations are capable to destroy false offenses, bitterness and to open eyes on how life and those who surround us is invaluable.