We meet people, we communicate, we recognize each other closer and, on the basis of heard or seen, we draw conclusions – the person is pleasant to us or not. At the intuitive level the communication with congenial people gives pleasure to us. But how to learn whether friendly feelings are mutual?
Instruction
1. As the simple truth – a friend in need is a friend indeed says. But also the trouble is different. For the school student the real trouble is the examination for which he was not prepared. Whether the friend will help out him in this case? He can allow to write off if only that ceased to stick into it with the handle, and can turn away intentionally to give a lesson for the rest of life, showing what leads levity to. At the same time will sincerely regret for the refusal in the help. When there is the real trouble, and many friends turn away, it is necessary to pay attention to those who are near. Those units which remained at the difficult moment to support the person not only by a word, but also business are worthy to be called friends.
2. The true friend will always intercede for the companion even if he understands that force on other party, and punishment is inevitable. On that and friends together to get involved in the history and also amicably and together to leave them. The doubting friend, at best, will call someone else, or retires from the scene.
3. For check of the friend on durability it is possible to create an artificial problem most. For example, to set about itself an unpleasant rumor afloat and to wait for reaction of friends. Those friends who will support hearing about a bad story and will begin in this occasion to be whispered with other companions, advancing hearing in masses, are not worthy to be called friends. And who swallowed the invented hearing as if it also was not, continuing to communicate sincerely with you, that admits the best and reliable friend. Sometimes, that it is very difficult to meet sincere friends in life, not everyone undergoes testing, but, nevertheless, confidence in the neighbor will never damage.