The most unpredictable and strange thing in the world – the human relations. Sometimes the situation comes into such extremes what to find a way out of it very not easy. How to arrive if you like not one person, to make a choice between two men?
Instruction
1. If there was such situation, just accept it. There is nobody to blame here. Think, your men are not guilty of it at all and you too. All this heart which, as we know, cannot order.
2. Ideal option will be to suspend, of course, the relations - both those, and others. Further it will save you from pangs of conscience necessary to nobody and attacks of repentance for the fact that you deceived.
3. Psychologists in such situations claim that term in a week quite has to be enough in order that you could be defined who is more necessary to you, having weighed everything pros and cons. The main condition – this week you should not see one man, calls, sms and any other type of communication are forbidden too.
4. If you have no analytical mentality and it is difficult for you to keep all nuances in the head, the sheet of paper will come to the rescue. Divide it into two parts and write advantages at first one, and then the second man. Repeat the same operation with shortcomings. Here you will see - so will easier make the final choice.
5. Psychologists claim that the person better all can be known, traveling with him. So, as the option can be offered the following: you spend days off in sorties with the men, in turn, naturally. It has to help you to make the choice.
6. Though neither psychologists, nor fortunetellers will help with such affairs. Each woman herself has to be defined and make the final decision. If you had such situation, and you do not know how to make a choice between two men, think. If in each of them there is something like that that forces you to leave to another, then, most likely, any of them is simply not necessary to you. It cannot just give you everything that is necessary. When you meet really that person, and will not come to your mindyour mind to choose between him and someone else.
7. So if at you everything is frivolous, and you the person risky at heart, continue the relations in the same spirit, without choosing anybody. Sooner or later everything will place life in places.