Parting with the person dear to heart is given not easy, there can be desire to return it and to improve the relations. It is necessary to behave correctly to reunite and again to become happy.
Instruction
1. Choose the correct behavior to which you will adhere at its presence. Tranquility and coolness, cheerfulness and optimism should not abandon you. Even if you strongly endure parting, do not try to show it frankly. Do not cry, do not beg, do not threaten and do not try in other ways to put pressure upon the man because it can be given a hostile reception and will alienate him from you.
2. You watch yourself, remain beautiful. Become better, than were before parting. You go to beauty shop, update clothes, a hairstyle, have a rest. At the next meeting try to look charmingly. Having seen dramatic change, the man can forget about a quarrel and forgive all offenses.
3. Keep good relationship with the left person. Try to constrain indignation and charges in its address, ask on affairs and mood. You speak more, without touching a subject of parting and your claims. Use mutual friends to find the necessary information on his life. Ask that they promoted your reconciliation – talked to it, suggested to discuss a problem.
4. Do not impose it the communication, do not exasperate with calls or messages. Do not try to be crossed, do not make too many appointment. Show the arrangement and wait for response. Let to it to feel lonely and to miss, time is necessary. Take a small break before contacting and suggesting to meet.
5. Talk openly and honestly. Discuss everything boiled, express, listen to the interlocutor, but all on quiet tones, without allowing a squabble. Tell that you miss that you lack him, remember how were happy together. If he is optimistic, talk about possible reunion. As he it sees that has to change, show participation and discuss all issues.