Marrying, newlyweds sincerely trust and hope that they will have a strong, close-knit family. But any couple is not insured from cooling of feelings! Somehow imperceptibly the former ardency disappears, everything "becomes boring", becomes routine, monotonous. Especially after the birth of the child who is taking away plenty of time and forces. And the wife suddenly with a fright and indignation understands that she does not attract the husband any more that he more often stares at other women. How to return love to family?
Instruction
1. First of all, refrain from pity to yourself. Say, I gave everything to this ungrateful, and it!. Do not look for sympathy at relatives, girlfriends. Believe, that will feel sorry for you, chorus lamenting "ah what you unfortunate, ah, what all men of the swine", nothing will change.
2. Quietly, objectively and impartially analyze the reasons of cooling of the husband. In most cases very well straight talk with the husband helps. It is not necessary to press on it - just quietly discuss problems in marriage, ask it about the reason of such cold relation. If he also wants to keep family, then will assist in "kindling" of your love.
3. Be stirred up and get it together! Remember that also depends on you whether the love will return to family, or not. The husband once allocated you from the infinite number of women! Means, and now there can be the same. Give to household chores only the most necessary minimum of time. Believe: still nobody died of an easy disorder. The husband will absolutely quietly bear if, for example, dust in the house is wiped not every day. It is much more important if you have time to watch itself! Do original hair, update the clothes, having paid special attention to underwear.
4. Become interesting to the husband, communicate on the subjects distracted from family more often, you spend together free time, attend cultural actions.
5. Do not forget the old wise truth: "The way to heart of the man lies through a stomach". If you surprise the husband with unexpected, original dishes, having delicately hinted that you learned to prepare them especially for him, consider what half-affairs is already made.
6. Surely involve the husband in care for the small child! After all, it is its flesh and blood. He is quite capable to get up at least sometimes to the child, to rock to sleep him, to swaddle. And you do not forget to praise the husband, emphasizing what he is a good and careful father.
7. Do not neglect intimate aspect of life at all! Try to show an initiative, read books on technology of sex. In a word, make everything again to become for the husband of the most desired.