You met and at once fell in love with each other. Your relations were envied by all around. You always were together, and besides anything else was not necessary. But suddenly there came such moment when something went wrong as if on demolition. You cannot understand in any way in what the reason why the love evaporates in front of your eyes. At the same time without wishing that, you add fuel to the fire, making quarrels and scandals. At this moment it is necessary not to act rashly, and to find and eradicate the reason because of which in your family the dissonance began.
Instruction
1. First, you with your partner need to stay a little alone that all emotions passed into the background, and the reason and an order reigned in the head. It is known that separation very well helps to understand the feelings. Only being far from the half, it is possible to understand whether he / she is dear to you, as before, and whether those mutual claims which you began to state each other recently have under themselves the real soil. If two persons united, the love cannot completely leave, it can develop into something bigger, pass level on an arch. When couple makes the decision to be together, they have many duties before each other. It is worth to rememberIt is worth to remember it. It is necessary to struggle with all difficulties together. From it the love will only get stronger.
2. Secondly, sit down in a quiet situation, take the sheet of paper and the handle and write what suits you in your partner / partner and that is not present. So you will understand since what moment your idyll began to turn into a nightmare. For certain, the column with high qualities considerably will move opposite. When your relations only began, automatically there were reasonable explanations for all shortcomings of darling/darling. Here and now it is necessary to rise at least to the place of the partner / partner and to try to understand for what reason he / she arrived so, but not differently.
3. Thirdly, it is necessary to answer himself a number of questions honestly. For example, whether you have with your darling / favourite common goals whether you are ready to change for improvement of the relations. And the main issue whether you will be able without him / her, native to you the person whom you so love.
4. Fourthly, if at you independently everything cannot be structured, ask for the help. It can be the psychologist or your best friend or the friend. Now the help of psychologists became more demanded, than ever. And it not always is a fashion trend, and often the real help in creation of the relations.