Not always it turns out to delete from the real life of the former partners. If you have one company, you together study or work, meetings are inevitable. It is necessary to find a common language with last love and if not to be on friendly terms then to keep a neutrality.
Instruction
1. If you were an initiator of parting, try to come into contact with the offended girl. Convince her that the relations all the same will end sooner or later because your feelings passed. And it is better to endure a gap now, than to see a number of the discharged, closed person. And you gave it a chance to find really loving partner, but does not suffer without reciprocity. Offer the girl friendship. Of course, at first she will refuse. But then, after some time when passions cease, quite perhaps, will want to resume communication. Do not refuse to it it. After all before you a lot of things connected, and there were pleasant memories. Besides, this person well knows you and understands, will always give advice how to arrive in any given situation.
2. If your relations ended at the request of the girl, it will be quite difficult to communicate with her on a friendly note at first. And you should not do it. Adhere to a neutrality if meetings are inevitable. And always you remember that the person treated you honestly, having finished meetings when feelings cooled down. Think, it would be more pleasant to you if the girlfriend deceived you, meeting another behind the back? You would be tormented even more if you learned about secret unfaithfulness. Now you left, any more connects nothing you. You can build the new relations, having found really reliable partner.
3. Anyway, whoever from you was an initiator of a gap, you should not impose companionship. If you see that the former partner does not want to communicate, leave aside. Let there will pass some time, then everything will rise on the places.