Some problems in the relations of floors occur because men and women have different physiology and psychology. They look at the same differently, and likewise differently react! It is quite natural that the person who got used to consider the feelings and the reaction only correct feels confusion, bewilderment and even irritation, without seeing manifestations of the same feelings and the same reaction at other person. How to the girl to check that the guy sincerely loves her? How to her to learn to understand the young man, to distinguish the truth from a lie?
Instruction
1. First of all, understand and accept the truth: the guy – another it is absolute in everything. It is silly and senseless to expect from him that it will behave in any given situation as other girl, even the best friend! It does not demonstrate at all to as if he does not love you.
2. Remember that vast majority of guys hate infinite and empty (from their point of view) chatter. For 99% loversof girls to hear for the tenth, twentieth, 100-th time of a word: "I love you, you the best, the most beautiful, the most desired …" - paradise music. They are ready to listen to it and for the two-hundredth time, and in thousand. For 99% of guys, infinitely to repeat something – torture and mockery. Even if it is about the words of love.
3. Each girl has to jag as "twice two – four": really loving guy proves love affairs, but not words! If he does not go on it each hour about the mad love, it does not mean at all that its feelings it is insincere! Let she will better remember: whether he met her in the dark at a stop to take home? Whether took away from it a heavy burden that she was not tired? Whether helped about the house, or on study? Whether showed an initiative in communication, for example, called? Whether worried when she was ill whether offered the help? Answers to these questions will tell about much!
4. Do not forget that guys and at girls have absolutely different interests! Alas, the situation when seemingly absolutely normal, fairly clever girl fatally took offense at the gentleman is frequent: he, say, nearly yawned, listening to her story, very clearly showed that it bothered it! In reply on quite reasonable question: "And about what you told it?" the most detailed description of a visit of shop followed especially women's purchases or retelling of some gossip. The poor girl also did not guess that such subjects which for certain would interest the girlfriend, cause gnashing of teeth even in the most loving guy.