Alcoholism is very serious disease with which it is heavy to struggle. The illness not just damages human health: often it results in disability and death.
Alcoholism brings not only physical pain. It destroys families, does life of the patient and his close people just intolerable. Not everyone can understand in time that it is alcohol-addicted. Many continue to abuse, even despite entreaties and tears of the closest people including children who very much suffer.
What to do if mother drinks? Many children ask this question. And they already have problems: puberty, study, relations with an opposite sex. All these and many other factors leave a huge print on psychological health of children. And what to do in this situation? To quietly observe day from day how mother — the most loved and native one becomes an inveterate drunkard? No way!
Rule first
It is not necessary to become reserved. It is not necessary to save rage in soul for all world around. It is necessary to try to understand mother that to her it is bad that she is sick. Unaided to it not to get out. She does not want anything to change, everything suits her. In such existence she also sees sense. And maybe, sense to live already and is not present? What to do in this case? For a start to learn the reason for which mother began to drink. Perhaps, something happened recently in her life because of what it began to abuse alcohol. It is necessary to try to remove this cause. Though it is difficult and not really productive.
Rule second
To help mother to cope with alcohol addiction, it is necessary to try to fence off it from people who have negative effect on it. Under any pretext not to let in them the apartment, to find it some occupation, to load it house efforts, to throw out alcoholic drinks. This way as well as previous, suits not all. Everything depends on character of the alcoholic. If mother is quick-tempered, she can become angry from such cardinal measures. Also she can begin to go to other places where to it will pour and to come home in a state of intoxication.
Rule third
It is necessary to talk as often as possible to mother, to hint accurately that she is alcohol-addicted that this disease destroys her life and life of close people. It is necessary to influence correctly it, begging to receive medical treatment in the rehabilitation center. The main thing that mother understood that she is in power of alcohol addiction and it it is necessary to be treated. Otherwise no rehabilitation will be able to help it. The alcoholic has to want to win against an illness.