About female tears all is known for a long time: they cry with pain and offense, joy and to insist on the. And whether men and why they do it cry? These questions attract undoubted interest as the sobbing men – a big rarity.
If the man cries - psychology
Tears are natural reaction of an organism to hit of garbage in eyes, the appearing liquid allows to wash away it, protecting organs of vision. But tears have also other purpose, they allow us to express emotions and to receive a nervous discharge. Proceeding from it on a question whether it is useful for men to cry, it is possible to give definite answer – they need it for removal of nerve strains in case of serious shocks. Then why men's tears in modern society are considered as inadmissible, than men deserved such special relation?
Fault to all fashion for brutality and the assumption about truly male behavior. Since childhood say to the boy that he cannot cry, comparing to the girl. But so was not always, for example, in antique times the men's tears were not considered as something outstanding. In all poems it is told how brave heroes sobbed as if children, because of death of the friend or loss of darling. And then everything changed, someone decided that men are obliged to constrain the feelings. And in principle, in it there is nothing bad, only inept tutors often confuse ability to be self-controlled and aspiration to suppress the arising emotions. Therefore there are questions whether men and also a large number of the problems with health of the stronger sex caused by inability to cope with nervous tension cry. So before teaching the boy not to cry, it is necessary to think and explain properly that men's tears in itself are not sign of weakness. Not feelings, but inability in a decisive situation to cope with them are terrible. And in terms of psychology if the man cries, then it speaks about the high level of its emotional development, and not about existence of female traits of character in any way. Of course, all this is right, only if tears are means of expression of emotions, but not attempt of manipulation.
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