Often beautiful, successful and cheerful girl cannot understand why guys avoid her. The thing is that there are several female qualities and behavior models which are not pleasant to most of men. And often girls do not know what qualities are.
Concentration on - a bad way to be pleasant to the guy
The set of proverbs, movies, forums and the female websites puts some idea to girls that most on light it is necessary to love himself. The element of truth in it is - having a good self-assessment, you gain self-confidence, look good, it is interesting to communicate with you as you have the opinion. However you should not be obsessed only with yourself. Many modern girls are sure that guys have to be happy simply to be nearby, without receiving anything in exchange. It in a root is wrong. Besides, it is optional to make to the guy expensive gifts, to drive him on appointments and to please in every possible way is a men's prerogative. And you can thank the man a tasty lunch, a lovely knickknack or the weakening massage.
Men very much do not love the mercantile women appreciating in the stronger sex only purse thickness.
The girl as the guy, - not the best option
The girl has to be a girl - womanly, mysterious, gentle. If you prefer sportswear, have a men's manner of a conversation and perfectly do repair, with you can be interesting. But not long. Usually, the man, having met such guy in a skirt, at first is surprised, he is intrigued by singularity of the new acquaintance and an opportunity to talk on any subjects. But soon men's soul begins to miss truly female qualities - care, softness, helplessness. Using male behavior model, you will have many male fellow, but, alas, they will perceive you only as "guy".
Most of men love when girls wear the flying dresses, use a natural make-up and do not style hair in intricate hairstyles.
Show helplessness intelligently
Men be touched, seeing the fragile girls who are not able to open independently a bottle of water or to lift a heavy bag. But you should not change with helplessness also. Constant moaning, requests for the help and dependence only irritate men. Young people want to have relations with the lovely girl, but not with the whimsical child.
Silence - gold
Men very much do not love girls who stir much - on business and without. Sociability - good trait of character when it is shown moderately. However the man will cease be touched your children's spontaneity soon and seriously will begin to think of parting. Often the brain of the young man is busy with business problems and important questions, and constant gossips, discussions of acquaintances and just a flow of information are capable to enrage the guy.