So, came true... You left the young man. The relations are sorted out, the cancelled love is not forgotten, but the end is put to those relations, it is possible to live in expectation of new, even more fascinating feeling which you are worthy. And suddenly... The SMS from former. One word: "Hi". But how many this "hi" can bring confusion in heart!
The strange people — women! Here it seems left, it is already solved and signed that it was the mistake, are already ready to new feeling, but nothing here is perfect meaning "hi" — and already different guesses are under construction... "Did not forget. Writes. Did not find anybody better. Wants to return. Perhaps still loves. Is sorry about a gap. And kind of to answer it so that he understood that I am happy without it, but it is ready to learn how he is going to wash away guilt...". And whether it is worth thinking of these greetings in general! And furthermore about resumption of the former relations. The reason of this message can be not so flatter for the girl.
For what reason can write former
Can induce to SMS writing anything, but not what the girl — not flashed love and melancholy for it hopes for. Everything can be far more prosy:
— Was mistaken number. Did not remove "former" of the list of numbers, well and... Happens, you know. — Just boringly, there is nothing to do, with the new girl it did not develop, and here for old time's sake it can and will be possible to pass away an evening. — wants Something from you. Options the sea — to receive some service, to borrow money... But maybe, also hopes for something. For example on what the girl still waits for remembers, cries and dreams to return irresistible it. And it will also return, will make happy her to the following gap. Hopes that the girlfriend was dumped by because of what they dispersed, and it here. All these reasons and the truth cannot please. But "hi" nevertheless it is sent... And the former beloved is not forgotten... And what he remembers too cannot leave indifferent!
How to respond to such message
The best option, of course, in any way. Thus it is the simplest to show the indifference. If it was not the mistake and not just like that, with boredom, then will write still or will call back. But... it is difficult to keep. Especially if not all feelings died away finally. The disappointment has still an effect, the hurt pride burns. Perhaps, even feeling of loss. If all this was not, then there would be no such question also. It is possible to answer, of course. But not to be let in long stories about how you are happy now and as you forgot to think of it. It will be the clear sign of what was not forgotten. Is the best of all to answer politely "Hi, and it who?". Perhaps, the answer will be "Already nobody". Then just it is necessary to forget — it is already valid nobody. It is impossible to enter two times one river — all this is known. To renew to anything the relations which already brought once disappointment. But if he still loves, cannot without you, just wanted to hear your voice, to dial number? Yes, also such option is possible. But then it should not send muffled greetings, and and tell, or write if it is heavy to tell. Otherwise "hi" — it most likely is simple "hi", and it is already better to leave "former" in category former.