The ideal and close-knit family is a pride of the person on which creation and strengthening he laboriously worked not one year, and can also decade. But such efforts are not vain. They justify itself and cause enthusiastic responses from people around.
It is no secret that not all are ready to work so diligently for the benefit of the family. For this reason close-knit families meet extremely seldom. But it is necessary to equal not on a bad example, and on good. And the hands to build the strong basis for a close-knit family. And it consists, as well as house walls, of "bricks" – small, but necessary and as a result of united in the uniform building. What is represented by these bricks?
First and most important "brick" is the respect between family members. It means itself lack of neglect and sarcasm in a voice, insults, reminders on mistakes. But includes courtesy, attention and the patient relation to each other.
Second "brick" it is possible by the right to consider wisdom. If parents have such quality, then they at children will not find out misunderstanding among themselves, and will discuss controversial issues alone. So children will see positive sides of the union and to perceive marriage and family as the quiet and cozy place, but not the territory for disputes and shouts. Also it is important to parents to have a uniform view of education of children and their punishment, and children have to understand that approach to one of parents does not make sense to look for and to wait that it will cancel punishment of the second. Open communication is third "brick" in a wall of a close-knit family. In order that it was present, it is very important to eat, for example, food all family and to discuss what occurred in life of everyone during the lived day. Children have to be sure that in family they will not be condemned for the wrong acts, and will support and if necessary slightly will scold. In addition plan joint rest, walks, occupation household chores and campaigns on a visit. And last "brick" is a love. This quality dictated all acts in the loving and close-knit family. Lyubov helps to concede, understand, forgive and forget, to care, appreciate, support. She creates the atmosphere in family and keeps it at the high level. Thanks to love the family copes with various difficulties and, despite them, remains strong. The close-knit and solid family becomes stronger and stronger every year. The relations in it contribute to happiness in family and preserve it. Members of such union can envy kindly.