The child sobbing in shop before the shelf with candies or other seductive, but not useful products – the acquaintance all a picture. Most of parents recognize that the behavior of little rowdies in shop can be just intolerable. If mom or dad categorically against to buy this candy, they have to insist big works on the and not to give in on a hysterics. How it is possible to warn such situations?
If the attention of the child in shop was drawn by some edible trifle, for example chips which you to it categorically do not want to buy because of the harmful contents, in most cases not only loud shouts of the kid, but also frowns, and even remarks of other buyers are provided to you. No doubt, situation extremely unpleasant. How to make that such troubles was less?
The most certain way to avoid hysterics – to leave the child at home. But such fine exit for obvious reasons is possible not for all.
1. Accustom themselves to make the shopping list. So you will save yourself from unnecessary raskhazhivaniye between regiments with products and will lower time which the child will be in shop.
2. To reduce the probability of a children's hysterics, before an exit estimate the child's condition – whether he was tired whether he is hungry. Try to exclude all irritating factors.
3. On the way to shop it is quite good to discuss the planned purchases with the child. Try to explain softly why you do not want to buy anything over the list any more. If the child begins to ask something over it, it will be possible to remind him a conversation.
One of the most effective ways – to switch attention of the child. Think in advance what delicacy you agree to buy – if the kid only begins to be capricious and you consider that such exit is possible, try to offer it what suits you.
If the child already not just is capricious, and heart-rendingly shouts, demanding to buy him candy or chips right now, to offer replacement late. Try to inform the kid as far as you are upset by such behavior. Suggest the child to go outside to calm down. If whims proceed, this condition should be satisfied.
Establish tradition – children appreciate an order. For example, agree with the kid to buy for him something certain. It is possible to discuss and, the fact that you are going to buy is how useful and to designate the sum if the child already rather big that to understand it.
If to be prepared for a visit of shop in advance, to adjust itself on dialogue with the child and to very much try not to give vent to irritation, purchase of products will bring great pleasure and to you, and the kid.