Couple broke up. One partner left. And the second continues to love him. How just to cope with it?
Instruction
1. Remove number, block in social networks, throw out photos, burn sheets. In every possible way self-insulate both from the subject of sufferings, and from any mentions of it. Thereby you will save yourself from many silly situations, type of drunk messages or calls. To look, making similar actions, you will it is a pity, and the former love will only become stronger in correctness of the decision on the room you to your personal hell.
2. Find surely some time for sufferings when the chance still is presented, standing drunk on a balcony, over night the city, with the breast hair fluttering on wind, to shout "I svoboooden, in reality, but not in sneey …" well or just to shed an avaricious men's tear under Blue lyrics number 1. In female option we replace breast hair with picturesquely streaming curls of slightly negligent hairstyle, and Kipelov with "In Joy and Sorrow" of Khim'a. Give to sufferings no more than one week-end. More time is inexpedient to spend for this business, thereby we alienate ourselves from our purpose. And to drink it is harmful much.
3. You look, the first stage - the destroying actions. The second - destructive emotions. What third? Creative actions. But emotions still destructive, enjoy. The essence of this stage is in beginning to become furious instead of nostalgia. With it / with it now someone another. He / she is caressed now by someone's hands. He / she looks at someone burning eyes in love now. And about you already all forgot. When in all completeness this understanding comes, many go very doubtful way of "replacement therapy" or "like cures like". But it is not necessary. No, thank you. Wise are right, saying that do not exchange yourself for available, risking worthy. Your worthy still ahead. And what creative actions I mentioned, you ask? The third point so big turned out so I will tell about it in the fourth. So far we feel wild rage... Rrr
4. We begin to act. Changes in life are coming considerable. It is necessary to master new field of knowledge. It is desirable, not having something in common with your main specialization at all. For example, if you the mathematics teacher, then register in aikido. And if the boxer, then master object-oriented programming. If you and so the boxer-programmer, then begin (and surely finish!) learning Croatian. Here only, probably, I absolutely will be able to help nothing to the Croatian boxers with skills of programming. It is a pity for children.
5. Enlightenment stage. Beginning development of area of human activity, new to itself or knowledge on pure rage, you got excellent advantage of motivational type. The mathematics teacher with the empty, turned in infinity eye on which mind the image of her "darling" and who did not notice itself as she broke and put in half huge technical men in a kimono was always got among them a valid nickname Matemater. The boxer whose muse flew away to some fop by the name of Kirill, spending nights in front of the computer, unexpectedly releases mobile igrokhit "Kill Kirill" and suddenly becomes the millionaire thanks to the attracted advertisers and the run investors. Our Matemater understands meanwhile that she before eyes already absolutely is not necessary its being dokhlyak at whom now she would even not look. But that brawny brunette, perhaps only who could compete with it as equals on a tatami now looks at it such look that long ago the forgotten butterflies start over again flitting at it somewhere in the bottom of a stomach, rising above, both above, and above … to heart more and more persistently. The artist who, being employed, created Kirill's unforgettable now image sincerely admired mathematical talents of the boss, so souls in it not tea, and then there was it … They came back together with another buffet reception in the evening with investors when they were surrounded by three and demanded to give money. In couple of seconds they lay in an otklyuchka, and the boss - as - it - thought - the mathematician stood, gently looking at it, and with anxiety asked, whether all with it as it should be? Asked for some reason in Croatian. It the grandfather had a Croat, she understood. she understood... He is a man of her dream.
6. These stories from Paragraph 5 had to you explain everything, but if is not present, then I will make it. As a result of parting you, perhaps, the only time in life appear in a situation when self-improvement = a solution. The chance is really unique and it is worth regretting rather the your left partner here, it can never and not come the way of it. Notice, I do not say that just to learn a programming language or to become the master of aikido. No. It is difficult. But with such furious motivation really. And this way, I mean self-improvement, precisely simple (and very useful) a way to stop loving the person who left you who is not pleasant now at all. You became the person of other, more quality. Also people worthy it will surround you.