When the girl leaves the beloved, she is sure that the guy is forever deleted from her life. At first after a gap it is overflowed by strong emotions, she feels offense, irritation, sometimes in a temper wishes to the former partner of all troubles. But not for nothing the saying says: "Time heals". If the girl regrets about a gap subsequently, to her the thought can quite come: whether not to meet the guy for straight talk, reconciliation.
Instruction
1. The best way of a meeting with the ex-boyfriend – if him and you to invite to some family celebration or a friendly party. Let's tell, for birthday of the relative or close friend. And an occasion very good, and it will be awkward to refuse to the guy - even if he learns that there also you will come. Besides, the fact of stay on a visit, that is in others territory, will muffle your emotions and will force to behave frostily. And it is very important for reconciliation.
2. Therefore if you foreknow that you will be invited, take the initiative and hint (or ask in clear) to the hero of the occasion that the guy was also invited. For certain willingly will meet requirements of you. And further already everything depends on you.
3. At a meeting it is necessary both to look and to behave so that the former partner felt to you interest again, seriously thought: whether he hurried with parting? If such thought comes to its mindto its mindto its mind, before reconciliation no distance.
4. Let's assume, after break in relations there passed some time, you had a new guy or you married. How to be if your former beloved himself asks you about a meeting? There is no definite answer here. A lot of things depend on your habits, education, temperament, ideas of what is admissible. For example, some girls will not see in it anything reprehensible: why not to meet? It is not going to change the new partner! Just wants to talk, remember former happy times.
5. In this case it is the best of all (in order to avoid an ambiguous situation, suspicions) to meet the ex-boyfriend somewhere in the crowded place, for example, cafe or bar. Just in case at once designate the current status and it is polite, but firmly let know that return to the former relations will not be.
6. If you are afraid that the present partner can misunderstand such meeting or do not want to rake over the past, refuse a meeting better – also politely, but it is firm.