The relations in family where the husband drinks, it is difficult to understand. Why the wife does not leave him? Some are convinced that children should not grow without father, at others strong love. What to do in that case?
Unfortunately, now of families with the drinking men it is full. And often not only the spouse, but also children suffers. How in such situation to arrive? And it seems there is no wish to speak about a divorce, but also such life is no good. If the husband the alcoholic, there are two exits: or to convince him to recover, or to divorce. Situations are different. If the husband earns, provides family, but at the same time spends on drink a big half of these means, to the spouse to file for a divorce after all it is difficult to decide as it to some extent depends on it. Anyway, anyway with such husband to stay together there is no sense. Further it will only be worse.
At other outcome often happens that the wife simply is afraid of the husband therefore does not leave. Moreover and relatives, friends, acquaintances, generally, advise everything to save marriage. But why to ruin the life on the person who it is not worthy? Therefore here decision unambiguous and unconditional: save yourself! Not that happiness, in general any life with the alcoholic husband will not be. Think in the end of the ends at least once of yourself.
When from the spouse of the similar person you hear that anyway children have to have a father, think over what example he sets the posterity. Perhaps, will seem to someone cruelly, but it is better without father in general, than with it. To good the education by the alcoholic of children will not bring. Here already the spouse is responsible not only for the life. She has to take care of the better future for the kids. Some women blindly believe that this zapoyny period only a bad patch in life which shortly will pass. But the alcoholic husband will not change. He is not able any more to stop drinking. If not to treat him, then this person is already lost for society. The spouse in every possible way has to help to overcome dependence. She has to take the husband to clinic as not to do without foreign intervention.