Why the man who so sincerely and emotionally spoke about the feelings suddenly decides on treason? The reasons for a similar act exists much, and not all of them directly depend on how there are relations in couple.
The shortage of a variety in the relations. If couple together already long time, then gradually leaves originally passion, the relations begin to remind a routine. For many men very important that at life there were high, emotional points. Besides, as psychologists note, the considerable number of men differ in romanticism which cannot be shown to the half when the relations lose the initial emotionality. If on the way of such got bored man to appear the girl who will be ready to give it new impressions, will agree to go on a romantic date, and will bring coffee in bed in the morning and will make massage, then probability is high that unfaithfulness to avoid it will not turn out.
Personal lines. Why the man changes? The fact is that the character and features of the personality in many respects define not only the choice of the partner, but also that, will be how easy to be loyal to the darling. If the man windy, thoughtless, is not ready or does not want to enter really serious relations with the woman, probability is high that sooner or later he will decide on treason. When the man possesses a so-called image of the macho, and it is difficult for fidelity to demand devotion from it. Certainly, even lady's men sometimes fall in love and is so strong that cease to be lost in contemplation of other women, idolizing the darling. However such situation, unfortunately, is rather rare.
Momentary weakness. A certain situation, any situations in life can provoke the man to change. So, for example, quite often the fidelity collapses if the man is long time far from the darling. Alcohol, a certain weakening or informal situation, persistence from other woman are capable to push the man to actions about which after it can bitterly regret.
Constant problems with the beloved. Regular quarrels, charges of treason, even which was not the conflicts from scratch – all this psychologically strongly presses and can couple the answer why the man changes. If the woman tries to limit freedom of the partner and to control each step, then similar will lead to sad consequences sooner or later. The vast majority of men negatively react to similar female behavior. Because of the shortage of warmth in the relations, because of the destroyed harmony, in view of a lack of sex the man can decide on treason. When the woman mistrustfully treats the elect, does not wish to praise him for any achievements, to encourage, support and so on, the man begins to feel unnecessary. Wishing to lift the self-assessment, to relax, have a rest from constant quarrels and misunderstanding, he begins to be lost in contemplation of the party, and then over fidelity in the relations the serious threat hangs.
Desire to revenge and hurt. The similar reason of men's treason comes to the forefront in a situation when the woman herself was not faithful to the elect. On the other hand, desire to hurt can appear at the man who feels offended, humiliated, offended. At the moments of rage, irritation any person extremely difficult controls himself, there are such people who in situations of very strong negative experiences absolutely cease to realize that they do. Impulsiveness, explosive character – it can push the man to treason.